I recently moved in a home with a man that I truly love and have dated for 10 years. We are both retired so we finally decided to move in together, however, he refused to move most of his items out of his closet to give me room.
Dear Move-In Mistake:
No not really, however, not compromising in the bedroom might lead to problems down the road so most men need to understand that.
On the other hand, placing all your items in the other closet and bedroom will give you the ‘she-cave’ that you probably need when you just want to relax.
Remember that as men (women too) ages, they will become too set in their ways so it will be hard for him to give up his space for you or make other changes in other areas of his life.
I would not make a big deal out of the living arrangements. See how he treats you – that’s the most important thing. If he goes out of his way in other areas to make you feel welcome, then again I would not make a big deal out of it.
You both are under the same roof, which should give both of you more cozier times with each other.